I try really hard not to complain about the crappy driving of others. But I've been disturbed by the thought lately that goes something like "if you are going to wait until the count of one Mississippi, two Mississippi AFTER the red light to zoom on through, you almost deserve to get hit." And it's not that I really want anyone to get hit/hurt and I can sorta kinda understand going RIGHT when the light turns red. But after two whole seconds?
This somewhat ties in with he's just not that into you. There is a behavior we females tend to engage in that I don't understand at all. I don't think I've ever actually done this, so I'm not talking about me here. And if I ever have, I'm very sorry. Imagine the following scenario: You go out on one date with a guy. You didn't really dig him for whatever reason. He calls you the next day or two days after the date and you don't answer. You were in the bathroom or something. You don't really want to go out with him again. Do you call back or not? Apparently a lot of women choose to not call the guy back. Here's why this is the wrong choice:
A) Although men try not to show it, I'll bet that they're just as psychotic as woman are on this "is she going to call me"/sitting by the phone thing. And even if you don't like him, do you really want him to be as pathetic as we get sometimes?
B) Let's say the guy you went out with was a little on the crazy side. This is just fuel for the fire. And trust me when I say you do not want a psycho stalker on your tail!
C) It's just plain rude
Did I say you had to go out with him again? NO!!! If you don't like him, that's fine. Just remember that you did at least have the self-confidence to go out with him once. Would it really be so hard for you to call him back and talk for less than 10 minutes and say, "Look, Bob, you're just not my type"? Or whatever excuse you want to use? He might be upset that you don't like him, but in the end at least he won't be able to call you a rude bitch.